Bald by Chance. Bold by Choice.

Written by Betty Jones

When I was diagnosed with Primary Peritoneal Cancer in February, 2010,
The word “malignant” pierced my brain, echoing repeatedly again and again!

The worst shock would come a couple of weeks later…
When my oncologist said I’d lose my hair, with chemo being the instigator.

When we left his office, I cried out loud as my body shook with dismay
With the realization that I’d have to wear a wig on my daughter’s wedding day!

I knew I couldn’t carry this burden alone,
So went immediately to contact others by email or phone.

As prayers were sent up from across the state
My fears and burdens were lifted off my plate!

How could I drown in self-pity any more,
With friends continually knocking at my door?

A sense of gratitude that my life had been spared
Gave me an attitude of JOY, rather than despair!

Cancer would take away my hair, but not my life…
So I decided to be thankful, with no more strife!

What are the chances that I would have ever had the nerve
To appear BALD in a magazine for all readers to observe?

I would like to offer some suggestions to cope
To give you the strength and a new sense of hope:

Being able to conquer fears of the cancer disease
Starts with being able to discuss the “C word” with ease.

Concentrate on other things to get your mind off of “you”…
Like buying new clothes or a great-looking “wig-do”!

Find ways to laugh and make light of your plight
Be a “cancer vixen” and put up a good fight!

Make a list of things cancer cannot do…
It can’t shatter your hope or faith, to name just a few.

When you look in the mirror at that shining bald head
Remember that it’ll grow back and you’ll have nothing to dread!